Some people like to say “I don’t want to go out of my comfort zone”! What they are really saying is that they like living in a static place where they feel comfortable, but don’t want to be challenged to grow and change and have new experiences. While our human nature tends to be that way at times, it is clear in the Bible that God has no intention of keeping us in a static comfort zone all of our life! God’s call is always to new and abundant life, as uncomfortable as that is at times, and to deny his call on our life to move forward is to settle for a stagnant existence that is always less than he desires for us.

Comfort zones are, well, comfortable, and God does want us to enjoy them! Sometimes it may be an activity that we really love. For example, I’ve been playing golf since I was probably 10 years old. (And yet I still play pretty crappy at times!) I know which club to use, how to read the hole, and I just love playing with my guy buddies when we are comfortable enough to tease each other about our poor shots and laugh at each other. I can do this many times a week, but I also realize that life should involve a lot more than this!

Primarily, comfort zones involve relationships with other people! Our family and close friends make life really fun and meaningful, and without them, life just isn’t quite the same. When our children grow up and leave the nest, there is sometimes a feeling of sadness and a loss of them in our immediate lives. (And of course, there is great celebration as well, as we divvy up their rooms to become sewing or craft rooms or dens and man-caves!) But when we lose really close friends, or a spouse, we find that our “comfort zone” with that person has really been shattered. I certainly enjoyed a wonderful “comfort zone” with Claudia as my wife for 42 years. Not that it was ever perfect, or easy, or always “comfortable”. But through our disagreements, struggles, forgiving each other, and reconciling again and again, we learned to form a team, and a bond that enabled us to face the trials and joys of life together, knowing that we had each other’s backs. And when that team and deep bond was broken by death, I learned that it affected everything else in my life in small and sometime significant ways.

So, what do we do when a major comfort zone in our life is taken away from us?

Some people retreat into the past, hoping vainly that it will be resurrected somehow. They stay in what’s left of their comfort zone, and just exist for the rest of their life. But if you understand the Bible and God’s plan for us, you know that is NEVER His plan! In the Bible, God is always commanding people to move forward toward him, to grow in faith and character, and live life here fearlessly, knowing that an even better life awaits us in the future!

Through 18 months of watching Claudia slowly die, and now about 8 months of trying to figure out what God wants me to do next, I came up with 3 major thoughts about how God wants to use everything in life to move us toward him. 

1) God uses everything in life, the joys and the sorrows, the celebrations and the losses, to move us closer to Him!

Psalm 42:1-2 says,

¹ As the deer pants for streams of water, so my soul pants for you, O God. ²  My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When can I go and meet with God?

All of the wonderful joys of life, from beautiful landscapes to loving relationships, were created by God for us to enjoy, and represent the intimate, deep relationship he desires to have with us. God didn’t just create us to enjoy this world and each other; he wants to share it with us! That was the original design in the Garden of Eden, but our sin separated us from him, and thus we are missing out on the best relationship we can have, a closer one with God himself. But if we let him, he takes the best and worst experiences of life and uses them to remind us of his love and desire to help us. One of Claudia’s good friends who also fought cancer likes to remind others that we need to “lean into God” especially when times are hard and we are going through wilderness experiences.

2) God wants us to be in loving, supportive relationships with each other, because they represent the relationship he desires to have with us!

We need each other, because that’s the way God designed us! We all need family and friends to laugh with, cry with, and share the joys of life with. There should be no “lone ranger Christians”, and if you think of yourself that way, you are missing out on the best opportunities to experience joy and support that God wants for you. The Bible says that marriage is the ultimate in human relationship, because it represents the very relationship God desires to have with us! In Ephesians 5:31-32, Paul says “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh. This is a profound mystery— but I am talking about Christ and the church”.  What Paul is referring to here is the idea that in the future Kingdom of God, all of us as believers will be considered the “bride” of Christ, and he will be the bridegroom. So the very best of any marriage is just a glimpse of how wonderful and close our relationship with Jesus will be when we live together with him forever on the future New Heaven and Earth combined!

In my case, because I experienced many wonderful glimpses of God’s love through my imperfect marriage with Claudia, I am seeking to find another wonderful Christian woman to eventually share the rest of our lives together! Will it be easy? Nope! Will it be a comfort zone experience? Not for a long time, but hopefully sometime in the future! Will it be un-comfortable for both if us, causing us to give up familiar and comfortable habits to start a new beginning? Absolutely! Would it be easier to stay single and just play golf? Probably. But am I going to try it? Of course! Because I know God is calling each us of to move forward in faith with our lives, so he can give us the best, most abundant experience that he desire for us! And, I love the thought of having a wonderful Christian partner and friend to share our faith together, with others, for the rest of our life!

3) Every experience in life, both wonderful and discouraging, is designed to move us on to our permanent home and new life with God forever!

In our 18 month battle with cancer, one expression that came to bring me much comfort and hope was the idea that her many friends and I were, together, helping to “walk Claudia home”! Now, it took us a long time to get there! We prayed for well over a year for physical healing and the hope that she would stay in this “home”, here with me, for another 20 years or so. And I really struggled to let go of that idea. But now, on the other side of her death for 8 months, I can truly rejoice that Claudia is really at “home” where she belongs, and she is infinitely more at peace now than she has ever been. And someday, she and I and all those who trust their lives to Jesus will be reunited and we will join him in living forever on a combined New Heaven and Earth, with new bodies that will never get sick or die! We get a glimpse of this amazing new life in Revelation 21: 1-5:

¹  Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea.²  I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. ³  And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. ⁴  He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” ⁵  He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.”

WOW! That, my friends, is the ultimate and only “comfort zone” we should be permanently seeking if life!

Enjoy your comfort zones, for a while!

But don’t get stuck and mired in them, or you may miss the best life God has planned for you!

Isaiah 43:19 says, “See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland.”

Finally, live life fearlessly, with hope for the future! Christians are always called to look forward and move forward, knowing that the best is yet to come through Jesus!

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with  hope by the power of the Holy Spirit!”

¹⁰  For we are God’s workmanship (masterpiece), created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do. –  Ephesians 2:10 (NIV)

One of the myriad of things I miss about my late wife Claudia (CJ) is her unique personality. She was truly “one of a kind”. It’s really interesting now that I’m beginning, slowly, to talk to other Christian women with the idea of dating and, God willing, be led to marry someone down the road, many of my good friends warn me “not to try to find another Claudia!” And I totally agree: there was only one Claudia Jean Webb Keef, and there will never be another! You see, the truth is that Claudia allowed herself to become God’s masterpiece. And, as I’ll get to further on, God desires to work us into his unique masterpieces as well!

 But none of us start out as a masterpiece, and CJ was not born one, and was not even one when I married her! (I can say that easily now that she is not here to slap me upside the head!) Most people who knew CJ well knew she was gifted with an amazing, powerful, and beautiful voice that she used to worship and glorify God all her life. But even there, it took her years of grueling music lessons and practice to refine her voice, as was the same with her piano, guitar, and all the instruments she came to learn. And when we got married, she had some things to learn. She could be rude and insensitive: she came into my bachelor pad, unannounced, and rearranged the entire kitchen without telling me. (And then threw away my beautiful silver Christmas tree! )Then when I painted the bathroom a beautiful bright orange hue, she had the audacity to laugh at it and make me change the color.  And it turns out, she was a lousy cook then as well! I still remember the fish that was frozen in the center; I ended up grabbing a Whopper on the way to the bowling league.

 All joking aside, as time separates me a little more from CJ’s death, I see more and more her willingness to allow God to change her over her lifetime. Becoming a masterpiece doesn’t happen overnight, it happens over a lifetime! Think of a wood carver: he begins with a large block of wood, then he can use many saws, chisels, awls, cutting tools, sanders, and even a blowtorch to shape and change the coloring of the wood, and then when he is done he can show his work to the world. BUT NOTICE, the wood block sits there for the woodcarver and allows itself to be cut, chiseled, and burned! We human beings are not blocks of wood; we are living, moving, confused creatures that want to create our own life, using our own tools and blueprints, and we mostly don’t even think about what God actually wants to do in our life! Unless we trust God and believe that his plan for our life is better than ours, we can continue to struggle and work out our feeble plans for life and never receive the gift of a new life that he freely offers us! The verse right before the one the one at the top is Ephesians 2:9, which says:

“For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God—not by works, so that no one can boast”.

 God’s new life is a GIFT, and only can be received by trusting in Jesus and allowing HIM to do the work within you, changing you from the inside out over a lifetime! This change comes from God’s power and work, and gives us what we need to live as his followers. Peter gives us a glimpse of this refining and chiseling process as God’s creates our character to become his masterpiece in II Peter 1: 3-8:

³  His divine power has given us everything we need for life and godliness through our knowledge of him who called us by his own glory and goodness. ⁴  Through these he has given us his very great and precious promises, so that through them you may participate in the divine nature and escape the corruption in the world caused by evil desires. ⁵  For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; ⁶  and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; ⁷  and to godliness, brotherly kindness; and to brotherly kindness, love. ⁸  For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ.

The lifelong tools God uses to carve us into his masterpieces include prayer, reading and meditating on his Word, learning to wait and listen for His voice, and then applying what we learn in everyday life, doing the good works we were created to do.   But the greatest gift God gives us is Himself, living within us through the Holy Spirit! If we allow him to, the Holy Spirit will teach us, guide us, and empower to become the unique masterpiece God intends to us to become. In CJ’s life, I recall her slowly growing and changing each year, as she humbled herself before God and listened for His Spirit to teach and guide her. Her desk is filled Bible studies, notebooks, and Bibles that are underlined and filled with notes, as well as prayer lists and journals that she compiled over decades. CJ was taking notes, making prayer lists, highlighting her Bible, and taking sermon notes on the Sunday messages up until 2 weeks before she died. That’s when her hands started shaking too much and confusion overcame her because of the liver failure. But I admire her willingness to continually be formed into the unique person God created her to be, and she never stopped learning and growing until the end.

God wants to craft each of into his unique, one of a kind, masterpiece! And he wants us to do unique, amazing things for him and his Kingdom.

God wants to fill each of us with his power, love, and hope for an amazing and eternal future with him.

Are you, and I, willing to wait on God, listen to His Spirit, and allow him to continually change us from the inside out, molding us into his sons and daughters of the Kingdom?

As I think again about my friends’ comments to “not try to find another Claudia”, I think the one quality of Claudia I would like to find in another Christian woman is the desire to allow God to form her into the unique masterpiece that he wants her to be. As for me, I would like to enjoy the privilege of sharing life with another daughter of God who has found her peace and fulfillment in God’s love! The bottom line is, God wants a better and more amazing life for us than we can ever create ourselves, and I pray that for you as well.

I will close with the wonderful prayer of Paul from Ephesians Ch. 3:

Ephesians 3:14-21 (NIV)
¹⁴  For this reason I kneel before the Father, ¹⁵  from whom his whole family in heaven and on earth derives its name. ¹⁶  I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, ¹⁷  so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, ¹⁸  may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, ¹⁹  and to know this love that surpasses knowledge–that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. ²⁰  Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, ²¹  to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.

Just over 2 years ago, Claudia (CJ to many of you) sat at our kitchen island counter and got a phone call from our local doctor’s office. She had been having some stomach soreness, and they thought she may have gall bladder problems or ulcers. The CT scan came back and the message was “you are full of tumors, and we’re sending you down to the cancer center in Grand Rapids”.  She hung up, fell into my arms sobbing, and cried out “I’m going to die!” We called our sons and other family that night, and they were all as shocked as we were. A week or two later, the cancer doctor told us she has stage 4 metastatic cancer, about as bad of a message we could have heard. After we started telling friends and asking for your prayers, CJ decided to create a Facebook page called Updates on CJ Keef to keep you informed of how the journey was going. Little did we know it would grow until today there are 212 members on that page. CJ did her own updates most of the time, and when she got too sick and confused at the end, I would do them.

    This will be the last update I will post on that page, and I’m sharing this on my blog page as well.  I will shut the Update page down after Easter. On behalf of CJ and me, I can’t begin to express how thankful we were for all of your prayers and support on this page, as well as the many cards, messages, emails, and calls we got over the 18 month journey. You folks were used by God to keep us going, give us strength and hope, and help us all, together, finally “walk CJ home” to her heavenly Father, where I know she is now more alive than ever before, free from sin and a cancer-ridden body, and enjoying the beginning of an eternal life that is so wonderful it is beyond our imagination. 

    By sharing this 18 month journey with us, you helped CJ and me both experience new truths and actually grow stronger in faith through suffering. C.S. Lewis famously said that in prosperity God whispers to us, but in adversity he shouts to us. We knew well Romans 8:28, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose”. But knowing it with your mind is one thing; experiencing it with your heart is something very different. Many of you shared amazing prayers and scripture, many shared from your own struggle with cancer, and all of that brought comfort and strength to us. And as we shared our thoughts and growing faith with you, it encouraged others as well. That allowed us to see God using our suffering to help and encourage others, knowing nothing is wasted if we trust God in the midst of pain.

 I have decided to close down the Update page after Easter this year for a specific reason. Claudia was a wonderful wife, mother, gramma, teacher, and friend to many.  Like all of us, she was not perfect, and certainly had her flaws. But what made her the person she became, and why she was so endearing to so many, stemmed from her intimate relationship with God. She drew close to God as a young teenager while experiencing a crisis in her life. She discovered then that Jesus loved her more than she could ever imagine, and she fell in love with Jesus and grew in that relationship for the rest of her life. I know if you had asked CJ, she would have said that I was the “love of her life”, and I was blessed to be that person. But knowing her better than any of you, I can confidently say that Jesus was the ultimate love of her life, and I was more than OK with that!  When she was deeply involved in prayer, Bible study or meditation, I knew it was a sacred moment between her and Jesus and I was wise not to interrupt! And I quickly discovered that the more she loved Jesus and let him love her, the more she was able to love me with that same love, more than she ever could have without knowing Jesus. So, for my great life with Claudia, I can truly say “Thank you, Jesus!”

    Claudia was wonderful at relationships with family and friends, and many of you can attest to that. But anyone who knew CJ well knew that her ultimate passion and joy in life was singing! I believe God gifted her with that beautiful voice as a means of blessing others, and she loved to sing all kinds and varieties of music. But when she sang songs of praise to her God, it was like a love song, and her eyes focused beyond the people in the room, and her voice became stronger and clearer, and she sang the words from the depths of her soul. She loved Christmas, and allowed me each year to accompany her on the piano as she sang “O Holy Night”. But I know the most important day for her was Easter, and the words of the Easter songs were the most meaningful to her. This Easter, as you sing the familiar songs in church, I want you to remember that Claudia is actually living out those hopes and promises that we sing about that day! I know that if CJ could speak to us once more today, her message would be to accept the message of Easter in our heart and trust Jesus with all of our life, now and forever!

   You see, Easter is the greatest message humanity has ever experienced: God did the unthinkable to offer us a gift that is unimaginable! Being Methodists, Claudia and I both always insisted on beginning the Easter service with the old Charles Wesley classic “Christ the Lord is Risen Today”. The middle verses say “ Lives again our glorious King; Where, O death, is now thy sting? Once he died our souls to save, Where’s thy victory, boasting grave?… Soar we now where Christ has led, Following our exalted Head, Made like him, like him we rise, Ours the cross, the grave, the skies!  Alleluia!”  You see, the Easter message recognizes that we are all dead in our sinfulness, and we can’t save ourselves. But God loves so much that he sent his son Jesus to earth to exchange his life for ours. He was fully God and fully human, but he gave up his power and rights as God in order to take all of our sins and punishment on himself and die for us on the cross, in our place. He was buried and dead, but God raised his body to life 3 days later, and now he lives forever and invites us receive his forgiveness and power to live with him now and forever! Death has been defeated by Jesus, and we can rise with him to an amazing, sin-free life that we will someday (hopefully soon) live out with Jesus on a newly restored Heaven and Earth combined, and we will have new resurrection bodies that will never get sick or die! That’s a gift beyond our wildest imaginations, and it’s yours for the asking if you will trust your life to Jesus. ⁹“No eye has seen, no ear has heard, no mind has conceived what God has prepared for those who love him”–1 Corinthians 2:9 (NIV)

  My fondest Easter memory with Claudia was in our Clawson church, where for at least a couple years we would end our Easter service with a duet with CJ and our dear friend Phil Paonessa. Phil and CJ shared in worship together, and they both had wonderful voices. They would sing the popular song today called “You Raise Me Up” ( not originally written as a Christian song, but it captures the Easter message well).   Phil would sing the first verse, starting slowly and then building in intensity with his deep voice, then CJ would sing the next verse with her soprano voice, and they would go back and forth until they joined their voices in full power on the last verse. It would leave us with goose bumps and tears in many eyes because of the power of the words and the singing. The words are:

When I am down and, oh my soul, so weary
When troubles come and my heart burdened be
Then, I am still and wait here in the silence
Until You come and sit awhile with me.

You raise me up, so I can stand on mountains
You raise me up, to walk on stormy seas
I am strong, when I am on your shoulders
You raise me up to more than I can be

My friends, all of us have many moments when our souls are tired and weary, and our hearts are burdened, and we may think we have no hope. CJ and I certainly felt that way at times during her 18 month battle with cancer. But the Easter message of hope is that God will not only sit with us and comfort us, but that he will raise us up to victory over even death itself, and in his future new world we actually will be able to walk on mountains and even stormy seas. I pray that if you haven’t yet, you will now trust your life to Jesus, let him raise you up and give you hope, and empower you to truly enjoy life now and forevermore!

The Final Update on CJ is this:

– she is alive and well, and having the time of her life with her first true love, Jesus!

– and she is saying to each of us, “Trust your life to Jesus today, and everything is going to be wonderful in the end. And when the time is right, come and join me in this amazing life that is beyond your imagination!”

Happy Easter, and may God truly bless you all!

Tom

(P.S. You were all wonderful friends of CJ, and we both are so grateful to you for your love and support over this journey. We could not have done it without you! After I close the Update page and CJ’s regular Facebook page after Easter, you are welcome to keep in touch with me if you would like by following my Facebook page (Thomas Keef). You can also follow my blogs at www.boomers4jesus.org . And if you want to be on an email list that I have that I send my new blogs to, send me your email and I will add you to that list. Thanks again for everything!)

It should be no surprise to anyone who has read my blogs for the past year or more that I am lonely now, as it’s been just over 4 months since my amazing wife CJ, the love of my life, died of cancer. I’m not writing this to get any pity or sympathy from you, although I always covet your prayers for God to direct my future. The point is, at this season of my life, loneliness is the biggest challenge that I deal with, all day long. But ALL of us have challenges, trials, burdens, and anxieties that we face, and yours may be much harder and more difficult to deal with than my momentary battle with loneliness. So I hope you will tolerate my rambling for a few minutes, because the 2^nd part of my blog, “anticipation” is God’s answer to so many of our trials and challenges in life, and hopefully it will encourage you as well!

LONELINESS

Loneliness, for me at least, is no fun. I enjoyed immensely being married to CJ for 42 years, and in that time I came to think of myself as ½ of a couple in life, a very grateful and blessed couple. Most of our life was about “us”, our faith, our family, our careers, and how God was using “us” in his plan, and we had a wonderful 42 years in that mode! I saw my responsibility to care for, protect, and help CJ grow into the woman God meant for her to be. And she did the same for me (and undoubtedly did a better job!) But now, I’m no longer ½ of a couple, I’m single. (One of my grandsons asked me, “Grandad, are you a bachelor now?” I laughed, and realized I am.) On forms, I now check “not married” or “W” (which does not stand for winner!)

A dear friend sent me a very helpful book entitled “The Tender Scar” by Dr. Richard Mabry. He lost his wife about 15 years ago, and has some great insights. For example, in one chapter he said that in his prayers he realized that his wife was in the loving care of Jesus, and now he was to “resign my job of protector/caregiver/husband and let it go. I have to assume that God will keep his end of the bargain. I know that she more than kept hers”.  I am also trying to emotionally and mentally remember that CJ is with Jesus now, and to feel good about that. After all, she is now with a much better man than me, and I certainly can’t compete with Jesus! In a more challenging chapter, he reminds us that the culture we live in is set up for couples, and I am now single. He says our “couple” friends will invite us out for dinners and try to support us, but won’t often know what to say, and in many groups we will feel like the “5^th wheel”.  I have found that to be my feelings at times. My sister-in-law described how she felt when she lost her first husband to a tragic accident over 3 decades ago now. She said when she went out with her young friends, they acted like nothing had really changed, but she felt like screaming at them that she felt like half her body was gone!

If you are presently married, please realize that one of you is going to experience the loss of your spouse at some point in the future. We all know that, deep down, but we really can’t prepare for it very well. I think we guys mostly assume, and hope, that we will “go” before our wives! I used to tell CJ that I wish it was me who had cancer and not her. I would much rather have gone through the suffering than watch her go through it. And selfishly, I admit, if I would have died first I think she would have handled the grief and loneliness better than me!

But this experience is not all bad, either. I have reluctantly discovered that loneliness is not the same as being alone. Loneliness is a feeling of missing someone you loved very much and feeling a great emptiness, but being alone can be helpful. Many people who lose their spouse learn to enjoy being alone, and find it an opportunity to focus on their new life and perhaps do new things they could not do before.  Many people decide to never remarry, and find fulfillment and purpose in life as a single person.  For me, being alone has helped me re-focus my relationship with God and more intimately trust him with my future, and that has led to a strange yet welcome sense of peace and even anticipation about what God has for me in the future.

ANTICIPATION!!

For those of us who have put our future in Jesus’ hands, anticipation of what lies ahead will help  us overcome any challenge we face now, and give us joy and hope, knowing everything is going to made right some day!  Consider the following verses to give you hope for the future:

Why are you in despair, O my soul? And why have you become disturbed within me? Hope in God, for I shall again praise him for the help of his presence! – Psalm 42:5

His anger lasts only a moment, but his favor lasts a lifetime! Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes with the morning… You have turned my mourning into joyful dancing. You have taken away my clothes of mourning and clothed me with joy!  – Psalm 30:5,11

For me, I know that this challenge of loneliness will only last for a season, and then it will end. I pray that God will help me to find the right Christian woman to be my companion for the rest of my time on earth, hopefully within this year! My part is to patiently listen to and wait on God’s guiding and not just take matters into my own hand. And if for some reason that is not his plan, I trust him to give me peace and fulfillment for my life in other ways. He has taken care of me my whole life; why wouldn’t he do it now? And the same is true for you! Whatever challenge you face today or in the future, it will not last forever. God will see you through it in time, and  at some point in the future you will experience deliverance and “joy in the morning”!

Paul says in II Corinthians 4:17, “Our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all”.

When you can see your trials and challenges in the light of what God offers us for eternity, they suddenly get smaller. There’s an old saying that goes “Don’t be too Heavenly minded or you won’t be any earthly good”.  My friends, that is entirely false and backwards! The more we understand the future, the more we can see this present world the way God sees it, and we are no longer afraid of anything that can happen to us here.

What does this mean for us, if we trust our lives now and in the future to Jesus?

– We will never die! Yes, our physical bodies will die, but WE will live forever!

–  And someday we will, as believers, live on a New Earth and New Heaven combined, a place much like this, but with no sin. (See some of my previous blogs for more on this.)  We will have new bodies that never get sick or die, we will be in God’s presence, and we will enjoy life together forever. I will see CJ again, and you will see your Christian friends also. We will laugh, sing, rejoice, eat great food, talk with Jesus, and create, build, grow, explore, and enjoy life forever, the way it was meant to be originally for us!

Paul says in Romans Ch. 8: 31-32 35-39
³¹  What then shall we say to these things? If God is for us, who can be against us? ³²  He who did not spare his own Son but gave him up for us all, how will he not also with him graciously give us all things?  ³⁵  Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword? ³⁶  As it is written, “For your sake we are being killed all the day long; we are regarded as sheep to be slaughtered.” ³⁷  No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. ³⁸  For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, ³⁹  nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.

Whatever you and I are going through right now, it won’t last forever.

Trust God, and he will give you strength to get through it!

And if you remember the future He promises us, you will not fear the present, and you can look forward with great joy and anticipation to a new life forever, with God, on a New Earth and New Heaven combined!

One of my favorite verses through this long journey with CJ, and beyond, still holds true and brings me comfort, strength, and hope:

So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.

I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my right righteous hand.

Isaiah 41:10

May you find this same comfort, hope, and strength for your journey as well. God bless you all!