Abortion is one of many social issues that are causing great division, hatred, and confusion in our culture today! While you won’t find the word “abortion” in the Bible, God’s Word addresses every issue we face in life either directly or indirectly. I’m writing this primarily for believers in Jesus, those who have surrendered their lives to him and who, through the leading of his Holy Spirit, are trying to live in obedience and service to the life he has called us to. So, how should we as Christians be talking about this and relating to others?

Understand there is always a spiritual battle for our hearts and minds playing out in everything that happens to us!

Imagine that above any issue or problem we struggle with, there is a spiritual battle going on in the unseen spiritual realm between God and Satan. God wants to bring us forgiveness, hope, truth, and a new life, while Satan will lie, deceive, and do anything to distract us from Jesus and lead us away from God into confusion, darkness, hatred, and eventually into death and separation from God! Jesus confronted the religious rulers of his day who had closed their minds and hearts to him by saying, ⁴³ Why is my language not clear to you? Because you are unable to hear what I say.⁴⁴  You belong to your father, the devil, and you want to carry out your father’s desire. He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks his native language, for he is a liar and the father of lies.  -John 8:43-44 (NIV)

What this means is that ALL of us are in constant danger of being deceived on this and any other issue by Satan, who always makes his lies and deception look appealing and seem reasonable.  So please remember that even though you may strongly disagree with those on the “other side”, they may sincerely think they are right and caring in their approach. Remember, the enemy is not each other, it is Satan who desires to destroy us all! As Paul says in Ephesians 6:12, “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.”

THE ABORTION DEBATE COULD BE DESCRIBED FROM 2 OPPOSING VIEWS TODAYS, OFTEN CALLED “PRO-CHOICE” VS. “PRO-LIFE”, EVEN THOUGH FOLKS ON BOTH SIDES MAY CLAIM SOME OF THE OTHER’S TERMINOLOGY.

Rather than re-hash cultural talking points, I would like to share what I believe the Bible, God’s written Word to us, actually says about the issues.

Let’s begin with the “Pro-choice” arguments:

A) The Pro-Choice approach:

Many of us remember that when Bill Clinton was running for President, part of his platform was to make abortion “legal, safe, and rare”.  While that appealed to many back then, it has certainly not been “rare” since that time, and today has become celebrated by many. It has now morphed into a women’s rights issue, as well as more recently a women’s health issue and a reproductive rights issue. Many believe a woman has the right to “choose” what happens to her body and has bodily autonomy, and since women are the ones who get pregnant, some even say the men have should have no say or opinion on this! So, what does the God say about this in the Bible?

First, God IS pro-women! When Jesus was on earth in the Roman Empire, men were dominant, controlling, and ruled over women and children. Men even had the right at times to have their own children put to death if they desired! Jesus countered that by treating women with dignity and respect.  He broke all cultural protocols by talking with a scandalized Samaritan woman at the well (John 4), resulting in her becoming his follower and even bringing many in her village to faith him as well. He healed Mary Magdalene of 7 demons, and she followed him and was the first person to see him resurrected! He befriended prostitutes and other outcasts and brought them the hope of new life, salvation, and a new identity and hope. And as for children, when his disciples rebuked parents for bringing children to him, he said, ¹⁴ “Let the little children come to me and do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of heaven.”- Matthew 19:14 (ESV)

The early church leaders, led by God’s Holy Spirit, were empowered to see ALL people, whether male or female, Jew or Gentile, slave or free, as precious and of equal value to God! (Galatians 3:28) In marriage, God created men and women equal, but with distinct roles and responsibilities. Women alone were given the awesome, miraculous role of nurturing a developing baby in their womb, and men were given the responsibility of protecting, encouraging, and doing all they can to help the wife become the fulfilled person God intends them to be. In the abortion debate, many women are afraid, alone, and hurting in many ways because the “father” of the child, the boyfriend or husband, is negligent, abusive, or just leaves, and in many cases is actually the one who pressures and  insists that they get an abortion. No wonder the rise and appeal of “women’s rights” issues! Men have too often miserably failed at being the men God designed them to be! Too many men in our culture are weak, self-centered, abusive, and controlling of their wives and sometimes children as well. This is the cause of most broken families, and often leads to poverty, more abuse, divorce, young people involved in crime, and the overall destruction of our society. And the burden is often left to single mothers who often do wonderful jobs but still need more love and support!

Men, the problem of abortion today lies mainly in the failure of men to be what God calls us to be! In Ephesians, 5, Paul lays this out clearly:

²⁵  Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, ²⁶  that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, ²⁷  so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. ²⁸  In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. ²⁹  For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, ³⁰  because we are members of his body. ³¹  “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” – Ephesians 5:25-31 (ESV)

What Paul is saying to men is that it is our first priority in marriage, or even dating, to be willing to give up our rights and interests in order to love and encourage the woman we are committed to! Jesus literally gave his life for each of us so that we could have the opportunity to be forgiven and given new life, and men are distinctly called to give up our “lives” in the sense of putting the interest of the woman we love above our own desires or agenda. If men were as spiritually, emotionally, physically, and financially supportive of women as Jesus is for all of us, I believe there is no woman that would not respond positively to that sacrificial love! One of the greatest needs today is for Christian communities to make a major priority of teaching men how to be biblical, Kingdom men as God designed.  (and girls and women as well!) And after that, for those adult men to become mentors to younger men. This could do more to change and heal our culture than all the laws and programs we see today, which are only band aids to cover the results of our sinfulness. If your church or men’s ministry would like to pursue this, I suggest a great book I read and used recently by Dr. Tony Evans called “Kingdom Men Rising”.

So, what about “my body, my choice” ideas? While it’s true that part of being made in God’s image involves moral choices, there is also great consequences for making the WRONG choices! The original wrong human moral choice in the Garden of Eden to disobey God resulted in physical death for ALL human beings. Thus, the idea that a woman has the moral choice to kill her own baby in her womb has no biblical support. As a matter of fact, the Bible teaches that once we surrender our lives to God, everything we are, including our bodies, belongs to God now. Not only that, but as you trust in Jesus, God’s own Holy Spirit now dwells within our bodies, empowering us and helping to become more like Jesus. Paul explains this in I Corinthians 6:

¹⁹  Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit within you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, ²⁰  for you were bought with a price. So glorify God in your body.-  1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (ESV)

B) The Pro-Life Approach:

But what about abortion itself? Is that biblical? What does God say?

The Pro-Life crowd would say abortion is killing of pre-born babies, and biblically, that is undoubtedly true. While there is great support for women in the Bible, there is absolutely nowhere in the Bible that remotely suggests that God would think the act of abortion is ever justified. (Except in a case that would result in the mother’s death).  In Genesis 1:26-28, God indicates that humanity is unique among all creation, because we alone are made in the image of God himself, to reflect and bear that image as we live. Even though sin has scarred us all, we still bear that unique divine image from conception!

What we Christians SHOULD be doing, and don’t always do well, is to have a “Whole Life Agenda”, often described as respect for life from the “womb to the tomb”!

One of the best known passages to describe God’s love and involvement for pre-born babies is Psalm 139:13-16:

¹³  For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother’s womb. ¹⁴  I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. ¹⁵  My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. ¹⁶  Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.

 -Psalm 139:13-16 (ESV)
(other similar verses are Job 10:8-12, Job 31:15, Psalm 22:9-10, Jeremiah 1:4-5, and Matthew 1:20, which refers to Jesus himself in the womb!)

Notice that in Psalm 139, it not only says that God is intricately involved in our development in the womb, but that in verse 16 it says that God has ALREADY determined a destiny for each of us and has determined a set number of days for each if us. Sadly, abortion, disease, tragic accidents, murders, wars, etc. (the effects of sin) can cut short those days God has planned for us. But the great hope is that he uniquely created each of us with a destiny to pursue, and we have a purpose and God behinds us, if we will surrender to him and let him help us! Thus, a “whole life agenda” seeks to care for human life and dignity from the womb up to the grave. We are to care for, love,  be a voice for, and work for dignity and justice for the pre-born babies, fearful pregnant women, orphans, widows, homeless, poor, sick, mentally ill, elderly, immigrants, etc., literally EVERYONE! Jesus died for every human life, from the womb to the tomb, and he has called his church, the body of Christ on earth, to be his hands and feet to offer redemption, hope, and power for a new life forever to ALL.

SO, what can WE do?

1) Begin your discussions and action with God’s love and hope, NOT with condemnation. Jesus came to bring, forgiveness, new life, and hope, not to condemn (John 3:16-17, Romans 8:1)

2) Find common ground with those you disagree with, especially in helping the hurting young women (and men) who are fearful and feel they have no resources to deal with in having a baby. Volunteer when you can, and certainly financially and sacrificially  support groups and ministries that aid young women (and fathers) not only through the birth process, but then help them find support financially and emotionally to begin as successful parents (or, in some cases, go through a helpful adoption procedure).  Invite them to your church and form groups you can invite them to that includes other young parents going through the same struggles.

3) Work in your families, churches, and communities to teach and encourage young men and women how to become responsible, caring, humble, other-centered individuals, based on God’s values for Kingdom living.

4) PRAY for YOUR attitude and for your actions, that God would be able to use you in this cultural battle to reflect his true image of humility, love, and compassion for the hurting people in EVERY stage of life! And never stop ceasing to pray for your family, your church, your community and especially for those you disagree with! God will use the prayers of a humble, God honoring person in powerful and effective ways, and will use you to turn others back to God and redemption and hope that will take us all the way into eternity with Jesus! (James 5:13-20)

FINALLY, REMEMBER THAT JESUS HAS ALREADY WON THE BATTLE OVER SIN IN EVERY AREA OF OUR LIVES AND CULTURE, FROM THE WOMB TO THE TOMB!

God has “got this” in every area of life, if we trust him and let him empower us to be part of his HIS agenda and plan. Although many will refuse his offer of forgiveness, redemption, and hope, God can use each of us to bring many others into his Kingdom of eternal hope and a new amazing life forever! My late wife Claudia put a saying on our refrigerator that says “God’s part I cannot do; my part He will not do”! (It’s still there.) Don’t try to tell God how to deal with this issue or any other; his plan is better than yours! Are you willing to do YOUR part in his agenda for life, from the womb to the tomb, for ALL people? I pray and hope so!

I close with a great prayer from Ephesians that seems to relate well to this issue, and reminds us that God is all-powerful and can do more than we can ever imagine!

¹⁴  For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, ¹⁵  from whom every family in heaven and on earth is named, ¹⁶  that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being, ¹⁷  so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, ¹⁸  may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, ¹⁹  and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God. ²⁰  Now to him who is able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think, according to the power at work within us, ²¹  to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever. Amen.  -Ephesians 3:14-21 (ESV)